To be able to offer our children a quality education and upbringing, we have to have certain aspects that are likely to lead us to do: A. – Children are not an extension of the parents. They are independent people who feel alone, they think for themselves and have a personality that stands out from birth. They are special. When we do not understand this situation frustrated because kids do not do things the way we want. Definitely not, will do it according to what they are and can, according to their age and abilities. I do not want to misunderstand me, of course, we need to guide them to learn habits and limits, but definitely can not do what I want, need and desire. B.
– The parents are just facilitators of child development. This means that they are not our property, that acts of abuse or violence are not justified by any reason. Besides that they are people who are in a development process where they have to strengthen their self-esteem, self-concept and personality. Yes we as parents constantly criticize, instead, to show the way to make something better, then surely we are educating children resentful, feeling unable to do something right, moreover, that his personal experience and self-concept will be developed for distorted way. The skills, abilities and learning, will always be supported on the testing and the error. Or, perhaps, did you learned all the first? Of course not, also made mistakes, also was frustrated, he also gave their cates, also scolded, and perhaps had to get things done countless times until finally things went, so what you could do the.